Tuesday, July 22, 2014

Three Years and Spreading the Word!

It was three years yesterday.  I simply cannot believe it.  Time is marching on.  For some reason as I was reflecting on what the last five years have brought -- from the beginning of my journey until now -- I became emotional thinking of what all has come to be.  Lonnie has a kidney, Sara has a kidney, I have a kidney... :)  Life is GOOD!

So now transplant stories surround me.  It seems like at least a few times per week someone sends me a story, tags me in a story on Facebook, I receive a story via Google alerts, I read a story on Twitter, or I happen to see one in the news.  I read/watch every single one that I come across and I thank God every time for the miracle of organ, tissue, and bone marrow transplant.  I am always still in awe of the circumstances that surround every story.  There is no doubt in my mind that God is orchestrating them all.  There is the story of Cindy, a co-worker from the main center of the clinic where I work.  Cindy had recently felt the urge to consider kidney donation.  She happened to talk to Sarah, a colleague of mine who I mentioned four years ago in my blog that donated a kidney to her friend's father.  Sarah told Cindy that I had recently posted a random story about a guy named Mike in Michigan who needed a kidney.  Sarah contacted me to pass on Mike's information to Cindy.  She was tested and although we thought maybe this is where Cindy's story would lead, she was not a match to Mike.  But it gave Mike some hope that there are people out there who are willing to donate to him.  And it gave Cindy the urge to press on.  She knows that God has a plan for her -- now she just waits on Him!  And today was a special day for a friend named Jeannette who I met through a Living Donors Facebook group.  Jeannette and her brother went into surgery today so she could donate a kidney to him.  The last I heard all was going well!

I am now at a point where I am ready to "take this show on the road", so to speak.  It has been my desire to start some sort of organ donation foundation or public awareness group.  I do have some leads that I am looking into at this point.  The need for donors just continues to grow.  It's heartbreaking really to see the data, but even more so to see the actual people who are waiting for a life-saving donation.  So stay tuned!  More to come!!

Sara's most recent check-up at UW was great!  She continues to be healthy and happy.  I no longer see the doctors at UW as I was dismissed from their care at the two year mark.  Next week I will see my regular primary care physician and have my "kidney numbers" done.  I expect all good news!

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Taylor's Gift

Last month I wrote in a post about the guest blog I submitted to the Taylor's Gift Foundation's website.  Today I was so honored to have my blog published on their website.  Taylor's Gift is an incredible organization that tirelessly promotes organ donation.  Although the Storch family experienced deep tragedy when they lost Taylor, they chose to use this sorrow and heartbreak to help other families in their times of great need.  I have posted the link to my story below.  I hope you enjoy:

Monday, April 7, 2014

If I Could Tell Them...

Tonight I got to do one of my favorite jobs -- be a donor mentor.  I take such great joy away from talking to kidney donors as they navigate their journey.  The excitement, nerves, impatience, concern, compassion, and curiousness -- I remember those feelings so well!  Most of the potential donors I talk to definitely know how the transplant will change their recipient's life.  But so very few of them even realize how much it will change their own life.  I know for sure that I had no idea!  In a way I wish I could express to them what it will be like when they finally accomplish the donation.  But then I realize that if I could tell them, it would steal away the moment for them.  If I could tell them, it would take away the awe and the joy of the moment when they realize that a part of their body is now alive and functioning inside another human being.  If I could tell them, it would take away the moment of happiness that will fill their heart when they know for sure that one of their life's purposes has been fulfilled.  So for now, I just share my experiences and answer their questions.  And when I hang up the phone I sit back and smile.   Another day, another donor, and two more lives forever changed.